My lovely frens. My last few days of singlehood!

Doesnt this look Yummy? Dar's Fav!

Pamper myself

After weeks of late nites, I woke up feeling dehydrated and lethargic. Being anxious I will look and feel crummy on my Big day next week, I feel an urge to visit a SPA to revitalise myself. So I visited this SPA at chinatown and took up the Sense of Love treatment.
http://www.afondspa.com/massage%20promotions.htm

Woo it was good! I love the hot stones therapy. Followed by massage and facial. I added some money to do the diamond dermabrasion peel which according to the auntie at the counter will make my face glow and look radiant. I must confessed when the treatment started, I was quite worried about the facial having side effects on my face. And quite intimidated by the machines they using for my eyes and face. Thank God the after effects were good! :)

Of cos this splurge burnt a hole in my pocket! I took up a package with them eventually spending close to half a K. This means I can visit the spa 5 more times! Woo... anybody keen to join me for my next round of pampering and treatment?

Wedding Gown

Oh Gosh I didnt realise that choosing gowns can be such a pain. It is only about 2 mths away from my BIG day and I haven found the gown that I like. I mean you know, a gown which makes my heart skip a beat, the gown that gives me the impulse to get married straight away, the gown that blow my mind away, the gown of my dreams in my lifetime.

Oh well. The most important thing for a bride is to wear the loveliest gown and march down the aisle for everyone to admire isnt it? ...I am really getting anxious.

Oh man, let me find the gown!

Loveliest Couple of the Month :)

We are going Japan for our HoneyMoon!

Photography

Recently had been sourcing for AD photographer. Been looking at forums, numerous photos before we...

Finally decided on Peter! He seems like a sincere and honest chap. Hope he'll take beautiful picts of us on our actual wedding.

http://www.daylightpictures.com.sg/

Oh I did my photoshoot on wed!
We praise God for the purrfect weather! Everything went smoothly and nicely.... except that we are so clueless about how to be SPONTANEOUS in-front of a camera! Lucky the photographer and helper are patient and good natured! I do hope our photos will turn out AWESOME!!!!

Anybody knows when NATAS Fair is coming?? I am sooo looking forward to the HONEYMOON!

Wedding crash ideas

Hey my dear jie meis,

I've found this website with lots of wedding crash's video clips. Perhaps we could get some ideas here! Some videos are really hilarious..

www.filmmanvideo.com under VIDEO-->Actualday-->Red button # 23~28.

Some direction

I haven blog for ages!
I doubt anyone will be reading my blog considering that I've "abandon" my blog for so long.
Anyway my dear frens will know that I've been going thru a depressing and rough patch lately. The pre-wedding preparations were kinda disasterous... Stressed me out so much that I am still having phobia about it. From after wedding till now I hardly have much personal time... Work like 24/7. Have been on retail therapy lately to stay sane. Have been seriously overwhelmed and upset about many things that convinced me that I m not gg to stay on in teaching after my bond is up.

Been seeking God and doing alot of reflection... I've to remind myself that my self worth doesnt come from my colleagues or students or the people around me. I've been trying too hard to please man... that I've lost myself. I am constantly doubting myself and even resenting myself... Do I really have a self-opinion, or izit based on how others will think of me? This is SO mentally draining!

Thankfully today's message reminded me of not being a man pleaser. It is IMPOSSIBLE to please everyone. I should seek only to please God. Been praying about my purpose and destiny in life. I am no longer so passionate about "moulding lifes and making a difference". Perhaps this is a different season of my life. It's time to move on. Take a break and rethink how to realign myself to God's will in my life, making adjustments to being Mrs as well.

Have so many personal things that I want to focus on.
Wedding preparation. This time Im going to prioritise my wedding at 1st place. It's a once in a lifetime. I want to have happy memories not sad ones.
Learning to cook.
Building a home.
Planning for a family... other job alternatives...

Really need to seek God's will. Each day when I see the news plagued with disasters like earthquakes, cyclone, famine etc.... I feel sad that this world is topsy turvy. All these signs that we are living in the end times is so real. For Jesus is indeed coming back very very soon. And we will have to go thru the trials and tribulations.
Yet many times, even now, I am so non-chalent abt things of God. How easy to be caught up with the present that we forget that we have an eternity to live for.

Like David, I want to "have a heart after God's very own heart."

I need a repentant heart like David.

Pro 3:5-6 Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and lean not on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge Him, and He will make your paths straight.

29th March

My wedding day:
Date: 29th March.
Venue: Rooftop of Amara Hotel

We have Pastor Cher Lip to conduct our church wedding and Jessie will be our solemniser. A pity that we cant find a chinese interpreter.
So busy in school that we haven got time to do much for wedding. Hopefully this holiday we will get some things done. Been stressing out about guest list, invites, decor of place, program etc etc... Didnt expect that even holding a simple wedding ceremony there's so much to do.

Am looking forward to my Big day! wish we could go for honeymoon though. But still got to go back to work....

I must really get started on preparation!

Solemnisation

Oh my.. Haven updated my blog for ages. So many adjustments to make in my life I am like a busy bee.
We have finally completed our PMC course. Learnt many valuable lessons. Hope I wont forget them after even long after our marriage.

We have settled on our solemnisation venue, at Amara hotel. I like the place. We are gg to have a garden theme for the solemnisation. It's like a dream come true to hold my wedding service at the poolside! I have watched movies and fantasise abt garden weddings before, never thought this silly dream of mine would come true one day.

Just hope that I can finalise the date soon cos need to fit the pastor's schedule. Tentatively sld be Mar 22nd or 29th. Hopefully.

So looking forward to the blessed day we can solemnise. It marks the beginning of a new journey of my life as I enter into the next phase. This wedding service somehow means more to me than the banquet. Hope to keep this wedding simple and elegant. That's my ideal wedding. Of cos God's presence on that day is very impt to us too.
Oh ya I have found a simple tea dress for the ceremony. Hope I look beautiful and elegant in it. Oh this reminds me. I need to get heels!

So busy. Many plans and desires we have for this year. Hope He will be with us thru every part of the process of setting up a family.

Cant wait for March to come, really.
God, help us, direct us. See that all our plans and dreams come to pass. Amen.